well, i still don't think it is the same problem as mine, as much as i wish it was, and could be fixed so easily.
I've used him at other places and he works fine its just at my house that something is wrong, and that is why i wanted to know if the problem was the same but i don't think it was.
Violet just emailed me saying they'd reset him but he is still doing the same thing, so hopefully getting a new router will fix the problem...
(hope, hope, hope)